Most of us spend 40+ hours per week with our coworkers, so spending more time to socialize with them outside work does not sound too attractive. However, connecting with them outside business hours can greatly improve collaboration. In fact, according to a poll of the Creative Group, 64% of executives said that employees who socialized outside work enjoyed a more productive relationship.
In this digital age, it is important to note that “connecting” doesn’t mean friending co-workers through social media. Whether it is spending time at the company picnic or enjoying after-hours drinks, socializing with coworkers is a good way to build camaraderie.
Step Outside Your Comfort Zone
This is a good tip to follow if you’re a reserved person. You might be tempted to stick to people you’re already friends with at work, but sometimes it is also good to seek other coworkers and chat with them. Limiting yourself to your social circle at work could mean missed connections or friendships with other coworkers.
Don’t Monopolize Coworkers
Again, it is tempting to just stay with your circle but it can also lead to your monopolization of their time. Socialize and mingle with others but don’t monopolize their time. This means that you should be prepared to have a graceful exit when there’s a lull in conversation. Be prepared with something like “It was good chatting with you John. I’m going to check the buffet table now. See you tomorrow”.
Limit Alcohol
Limit alcohol intake to 2 drinks when out with coworkers. You might be off the clock and it’s time to let your hair down but remember that you have to see them during the next work day. As we all know, alcohol has a way of lowering our inhibitions which can lead to inappropriate behavior. You want them to respect you and having a video uploaded on YouTube entitled “My Drunk Coworker Kisses The Dog” can ruin your credibility. Don’t be the employee that wakes up the next day and thinks “I can’t believe I said/did that”.
Don’t Be A Wet Blanket
It might be tempting to vent about a colleague during your time off to another coworker, but always keep in mind that other people might overhear. We all need to vent from time to time but it’s best to save your complaints to family and friends.
Take Pictures
Break the ice by taking pictures of your coworkers and tagging them on social media. This is a good way to begin and nurture relationships. Just make sure to use your good judgment and not post any photos that show coworkers in unflattering situations.
Socializing with coworkers outside work can be tricky; however, it is possible. Saying yes to outings and drinks after work sometimes can help establish connections, improve work relationships and lead to better teamwork.
